One to two dating

06 Jun

When the stress lessened, I stopped paying attention to myself and started paying attention to my date.

On one occasion when things were going very poorly, instead of stressing out, I told my date I didn’t think we were a great match but that we could still have fun over dinner.

When I was only meeting one girl a month, there were so many qualities that I didn’t like that I would ignore simply because I didn’t want to have to start all over with someone else.

I would continue to date someone negative or rude or conceited and would just hope that things would just eventually “work themselves out”.

I moved from one date a month to one a week and eventually was going on up to two first-dates a week.

I stopped defending the poor qualities my dates had and started moving on.

Dating in numbers allowed me to make decisions based on what I desired, not based on how lonely I was at that time.

There were several side-effects to this, aside from a busier schedule, that make me now believe this is the best way to approach online dating: 1.

Better Definition As I went on more and more dates in a short time period, I realized that what I really wanted in a woman and what I had been willing to accept were very different.