Turn ons when dating

15 Sep

Having an engrossing conversation (that one’s probably just me)6. Someone who will rub me the right way…and I mean feet and back! Stable…I already have 4 kids…I don’t need a man who’s a kid5. A great sense of humor (can laugh at himself and me)3. I don’t speak either language, so fake it if you have to :-)!! Hold me, hug me, laugh and smile — nothing like being in the arms of a man that smells good and can make you smile at the same time! Once we’re in a relationship, these will make me want to cancel our dinner reservations and stay home with him:1. Telling me I’m beautiful and meaning it (we can see it in your eyes…)5. Honest…someone who can actually tell you how they feel4. A good writer and speller; also knows the proper use of punctuation 2. Yes, a new food, experience, whatever, that is a huge turn on.4. yes, just to say hi, to say you were thinking about me, to tell me about your day, and ask to hear about mine. Responsiveness — if I text you or email you, and you reply, and are genuine about being happy to hear from me… Being clingy and possessive drives men crazy, but being obsessed with yourself or uninterested in anything he does also makes you unappealing.Rebuffing his first kiss after a magical night that led him to believe you liked him a lot, even if it’s because of some hard and fast code you follow, will throw a bucket of cold water on the romance. Meek (which I define as power under constraint: a powerful person that is wise, gentle, and self-assured. as long as it’s not at him (unless he deserves it5. Doing some chore as a surprise because he knows I hate it4. Taller than me (I’m 5’7″) yeah, burn on baby, I can’t help it.2.

Someone who is social to the point where they know how to conduct themselves and can really hold an interesting conversation with people. Committed — someone who is committed and loyal, someone who takes pride in his relationship and likes to be taken care of (yes, I am one of those women… Physically fit (not an Olympian but takes care of himself)4. ……………in a niche way, men who play the guitar slung really low and smoke whilst they do. They’re extremely rare in my book and this really should be number one.)3. Self-awareness/being willing to laugh at himself (also very very rare)5. someone who knows multiple language is also a huge turn-on. Communication — a guy who can communicate, open up to you, who is responsive and is good at keeping in touch. Someone who can talk to you, someone who has knowledge of what’s going on in the world, who can have a conversation, good debate …